@Stealth83 : #1- She was dating a cop. What more screening do you want? He's passed background checks, has no criminal background... And, if he was good, he probably knew how to hide both the camera and his deviant behavior pretty well.
#2 - Always putting the children first is not the right answer. To raise a happy, well adjusted child, the parents have to be happy too. Children get ranked at the top as a priority, but they don't get to always come first. Please don't try to shame single parents for nurturing themselves and tending to their own needs.